I was just on marriage on here and asked 2 questions. One regarding whether or not it was appropriate for a Dad to hold his 15 yr old girl on his lap and give her a friendly pat on the bottom now and then, and the other to explain why I thought I had so much anxiety over that. The reason I gave was that there have been 3 or 4 times recently that when my daughter had to take a shower, my hub had to go to the bathroom really bad and would grab a roll of paper towels to go outside. At first I thought that he might have cancer or something then it dawned on me it was when she was in the shower each time. I went out "one time" to see where he was and he came from area of btrm. Very little curtain. Said he had seen a coon, and I know there is one around. That was the only time he came from that area, and so I thought every 1 would say it was my anxiety issues for sure, but every 1 seems to think I have something to worry about. It was just one time. Other times he was in the right area.
See, other times he was out in the storage building and all...and there is a part of me that really believes this is anxiety. Does it really sound that bad that he was on that side of the house one time...I thought it was just my anxiety talking there. What do you all think? Thought maybe people in mental health might understand better what those odd thoughts can create. The people at marriage/divorce section were kind in their answers though. Thanks everyone.
Oh, and I should add that he has been a great husband and father. Always laughing and joking with all of us and would defend either one of his kids at school...etc. I just can't believe he would do something like that. It doesn't seem like him.