What do you mean? Eats as in 'sits at the table and plays with his food?' and what is impotence compared to that? Yes they could both be frustrating because you could hardly please a guy either way really....but both could be rectified with the right recipe I suppose... Neither of these problems are unfixable... an eating disorder would probably be the harder of the two.... so I go for the guy who never eats as being worse....(as that would lead him to impotency anyway).