the truth is it is not the size you are blessed with but how to use it. some men want to jump into the bed and get it on get up andturn the tv on . so be a good lover hold her kiss her talk sweet to her touch her when the time is right to have sex she will be letting you know and do the forplay take your time and make sure she is happy the think of your self. then when it is over lay there hold her gentle and caress her tell her how you feeel and that she is beautiful in every sence of the word and no matter what size you are you will be the king in your womens life. it is not the size the best I had was with a man with a very mall sz. it is not all about that. with years at sex and love you will find that out.