Has any guys ever had to have this done & your girlfriend or wife refuse to do it? If so who did you turn to, another woman or even a man who was willing to do it for you? When my boyfriend asked me to do this I was grossed out.
I refused to do it and now he has left me. He told me he needed me to do it for him because he had a prostate infection. I didnt believe him. He also told me he couldnt have sex with me because 'health issues' were keeping him from having a normal sex life. He told me if I didnt do it, he would find someone who would do it, man or woman. He told me it would probably have to be a man since most women wont do it. I didn't know what prostate massage, or milking was and I thought he was being kinky. But now I realize that it is medically recognized and legitimate treatment for certain male problems. I would like to get him back somehow but Im too ashamed and afraid to say anything. I think I am willing to do whatever it takes to make the relationship work.

You are better off without this creep. Find yourself a normal guy and be happy!

sounds a bit suss to me!!!!!!