Has any guys ever had to have this done & your girlfriend or wife refuse to do it? If so who did you turn to, another woman or even a man who was willing to do it for you? When my boyfriend asked me to do this I was grossed out.
I refused to do it and now he has left me. He told me he needed me to do it for him because he had a prostate infection. I didnt believe him. He also told me he couldnt have sex with me because 'health issues' were keeping him from having a normal sex life. He told me if I didnt do it, he would find someone who would do it, man or woman. He told me it would probably have to be a man since most women wont do it. I didn't know what prostate massage, or milking was and I thought he was being kinky. But now I realize that it is medically recognized and legitimate treatment for certain male problems. I would like to get him back somehow but Im too ashamed and afraid to say anything. I think I am willing to do whatever it takes to make the relationship work.

he's definitely gay. and an ass for trying to trick you.

Why didnt he take you to his doctor with him so he or she could explain it more? If he really needed it he could do that. I dont even know what it is but you shouldnt have to do something you dont want to due to bribery.