continue relationship? -2- She never had her own vehicle. Recently, I bough a nice-second car (which should be for her), but after all of this don’t really want to put it on her name. She spent most of registration and insurance money for some crap and Christmas gifts for coworkers and family. And now she can’t even afford to get a UHAUL and move out.
I love her very much and I know that she will end up dead in a few years if she don’t take her life under control. She suppose to start the treatment for her eating disorder next week, but I swear I can’t take it anymore. She is always irritated, bossy and angry and it makes my life a hell. What should I do? To wait a little more in hopes it will get better? Should I break up now? She blew so many chances for all this time and yet was getting another one and another one. Does anyone knows who long time she is able to stay in my house legally until I can evict her? This is in case it’ll get really bad. We live in Kansas. Thank you very much.

Well, you could tell her that she has one month to get her act together. Then she has to prove to you for at least a few months that she's stable.

Seriously though, she probably has some deeper issues, and if she's already blown chances as you say, I can't imagine this girl 10 years down the road in a marriage. Your priority needs to be you and your life, not her. If she's killing your life, you need to move on before it gets out of control. Take it as a blessing in disguise that she can't move in with you.

maybe you should threaten, but not actually plan to break up with her
if yo think about it, if you end things this could make her even more unstable then she already is
and if you love her you wouldnt really want that to happen to her
you could try telling her how you feel
that you love he rso much you dont want to see her slowly lose what you two have because of her illness
i suggest you seek medical help for her anxiety the msot cause that might be whats causing her eating disorder and alcoholism
try and get her eating again and if shes self conciess about weight joina gym together or jogging together
cause exercising can also help with euphoria to help her feel happy with herself
and stick by her with her eating disorder treatment she'll need all the support she can get
maybe try eating what she eats as part of her eating plan when shes around
and if you need more food fill up while shes out of sight
but i seriously suggest you dont end the relationship

i hope things all go well for the two of you
xx