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Old 06-16-2007, 11:45 PM
Cali babe c Cali babe c is offline
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Default has anyone out there lost there dad to massive heart attack?

i did when i was 9 1/2.he was my best friend.i am 14 now but i still miss him and every time i go in my moms rooms i think of him because he died in there at the computer.what hurts tje most is that i didnt even get to tell him i love him or say goood bye.he was the best in the world but dumb ppl are telling me to forget him he's gone and he's not important what do you think bout this?true i swear this is all true


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People we love live in our hearts. It is the way we can take them though out our lives. It is time to get over the hurt and remember him in the good times. I'm sure your father would not want you to remember him sadly, but he would want you to remember the good times and sometimes where he had to be your father. If you need advice he will be there, you just need to listen very carefully to your heart. He'll be there on your wedding day with you; just close your eyes and twirl. You're the keeper of his heart and soul.
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Old 06-16-2007, 11:45 PM
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Yes, I lost my dad when i was 13 and i am 19 turning 20 in september. He died from a heart attack caused by a heart clog and as the same as you i never got the chance to say goodbye and he died in his bedroom but now my brothers. What i have learned is that you will never forget and you will always miss your father because he was a special person in your life. Don't listen to what other people say. 3 days after my father died a ex-friend (now) came up to me and said "your father is dead get over it" but 3 months later her father died and she said sorry to me so I bet that these ppl who are telling you this hasn't lost anyone special in thier life so they don't know how it feels or what your really going thro.
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Old 06-17-2007, 12:17 AM
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I lost my mom the day before my 21st birthday 11 years ago. She died very unexpectadly of heart and lung failure. Yesterday was the anniversary of her death and it was hard on me.

The loss of a parent is hard and you never really get over it. I was close to my mother and I still sometimes cry because I miss her or am sad because she didn't live long enough to see my husband and my youngest two kids. I miss her on holidays and birthdays, I miss her on regular days when I am sad or lonely or lost and just want her to comfort me or give advice.

You will never forget your dad and you shouldn't. Its ok to miss him and mourn his loss. Try to remember him in a good way and concentrate more on his life with you than his death. Don't think of the room where he died as a sad place, but think of it as a place you can go to feel close to him and remember him.

My mom died in her bedroom watching TV. I used to go there (before my father moved) and talk to her like she was still there. It sounds crazy, but it helped. My cousins moved into that house and one of them asked for her room because she thought my mom's spirit would look out for her.

Try to be happy. Remember that your dad lives on through you. You and your children carry his blood, his DNA and his wisdom in the things he taught you that you can teach your kids someday. You and your family make him immortal.
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