Ok ive never met a girl i liked more in my lifewhen me and her talk about how much we love eachother or when we kiss after like 5 mins i notices a damp spot in my boxers when i go to check i noticed i ejaculated on my self a bitWhats the cause of thisand how do i stop it

Masturbate to porn.

I do not think that there is a way that you can stop it. It is only something that happens when you get very excited.

most likely it is preejaculate which occurs when your body is anticipating sex. It is a mix of urine, old semen and a solution from the calpers gland(spelling on calpers?) it is meant to get rid of the earlier mentioned wastes and to lube up the inside.yes it is normal.

You need to relax. You're suffering from oneitis. Basically, you've not been with that many girls and so as soon as you meet one you like, you convince yourself that she's so wonderful and perfect and your mind goes all nuts.You need to slow down and remember that there a half a million girls out there that if you had started the relationship with you would find just as great.Just jack off more and go to strip clubs and get lap dances to train yourself.

You need to strengthen your kegel muscles!