when i cuddle with my girlfriend,my underwear will get wet spots all over, is this premature ejaculation?? is there anything i can do to stop this?? it sounds dumb but i would really appreciate anything that will help...

LOL, yes sir, that sounds like pre-ejac. there is nothing you can do about it. when you pre- ejac, it should tell me something....that you are horny.

No that is not premature ejaculation. That is commonly called as "pre-c u m" or "pre-semenal fluids. There is always a slight discharge if you get too aroused. It is normal.