...half hour but since my partner has had our kids and we havent had alot of sex for ages probably a handful of times in the last year and now cant seem to last a minute this as u can imagine is gettin me annoyed and cant be much fun for my partner i do give her lots of foreplay and oral sex is there a cure for this a practical one to get me to last for ages to be honest to not come at all wouldnt be so bad are there any safe tablets or numbing gel or spray that i can get over the counter any answers welcome

your getting over excited because of sex being few and far between you need to try and get your lives back into some normality again to get your sex live back ,talk with your partner i have four kids my sex lives fine you need to make more time for each other you can if you really both try ,good luck