My husband can not last longer than 1- 10 seconds (I am not in anyway over exggeragting) As soon as he's in, he's done. Our counselor has suggested he say a doctor cause he might have depression. Zoloft can help with depression and (PE) Premature ejaculation. I don't really care if I have an orgasm everytime, but it's been months since I've had an orgasm. . He refuses to see a doctor. I hate doing this but I'm not having sex w/ him anymore, I'm tired of having sex without any orgasms, it's been months since I even enjoyed have sex. He might think I'm being mean, but I'm so tired of getting excited to only get let down. This problem is causeing a huge problem. He gets mad when I masturbate, but it's the only way I can achieve any pleasure. How can I convince him to get help? I think he's being selfish by not at least trying to get on zoloft. Any advice or anything is GREATLY apprecaited.

Yes, he should be considerate of you and at least try to take what the counselor has advised. Sit down and have a serious talk with him and let him know that this is important for the both of you to continue having a strong relationship.

Good Luck and SEASONS GREETINGS~