...purely a psychological thing? It's really weird because those that say it haven't experienced it at all. It's like when they tell a depressed person to cheer up -- or ask them why can't they just get it together.

It's frustrating and it compounds the immense problems these people have to endure.

There is no help for premature ejaculation today. (There is however a website, pills, and some donkey spray -- see below). No medication, media coverage, apparently no research, no exclusive medical professionals... it's the wild west and it must be that no high ranked officials have this problem or else something might be done about it. Maybe they're too embarrassed I don't know.

But generally when you turn to the web for help it's a mixture of the same old "help" techniques, women saying that it's OK or that LOL, you're a minute man and they need a real man, or it's all psychological.. For me it's been years through many mindsets and moods.

Who came up with this bizarre rumor?