We have been together nearly a year and he's never tried haveing sex with me. I'm about 14 yrs younger then him. He is 54. I get tired of just looking at each other all the time. So he comes over where he know that nothing is going to happen, and sits there. (he's safe) I don't think that is right to me though. We can't sit here and look at eachother forever. I wonder if he ever thinks about this stuff?! I'm to embaressed to say anything to him.

Don't be embarrassed, and neither should he. To answer your question No all men that take high blood pressure meds don't suffer from erectile dysfunction. Get some reading material on the topic and you and he can read it together.Real answers are better than just guessing.

no dear god.but i wish mine would!!!!!!!

Gee you are not getting any younger.....and you want it...SO, just start talking ...ta heck with being embarrassed and ask....if he can't preform sexually, there are other ways the two of you can get it on...you are old enough to know better so start talking. first are you sure he is a guy???? and second by the time i got done asking questions he would wish he never met me...you have the right to know....do you want to live the rest of your life like this???? i wouldn't